- I am a sponge for people’s energy – I feel this is both a blessing and curse. It is both a weakness and a strength. At times I absorb too much, I allow other peoples energy to weigh me down, yet this is also a blessing when I surround myself around positive like-minded people I can feed off their energy, as I know people feed off mine.
- I am a walking contradiction – I love to find moments of calmness, yet I attract crazy; crazy situations, people and moments and I also thrive on the randomness of this and the good crazy that I and my life is. I teach body balance, I have excellent balance, yet I am ridiculously clumsy and trip over nothing several times a day. I don’t spend a lot of time doing my hair and I rarely wear makeup or do other “girly” things, yet look out world if my nail polish is chipped on my toes it seriously distresses me to epic proportions.
- I am a great cook but terrible at baking. I heard once that cooking is an art and baking is a science and if that is true then it makes perfect sense to me. I love to throw things together and create. I hate having to have exact measurement s and stir for the exact time I am told to. I love the challenge of having a few random edible items at home and making them into something amazing.
- I am messy, no really I am for a tiny little person I can create mess of cyclonic proportions in about two minutes – I truly don’t know how I do it, it’s quite amazing. My house can go from spotless to war zone in about 5 minutes. I don’t know what I do but man I do it well.
- I sometimes feel like a yogi imposter – #secretnownotsosecretconfessionsofayogi – I do yoga and I eat meat, drink coffee and drink alcohol – there I said it – I do it all!
- I love to write, but I hate punctuation; I just finished a job in communications and marketing and don’t get me wrong I understand the importance of punctuation but I love to just let my fingers fly across a keyboard and unleash an unconscious stream of thoughts onto my laptop and see what appears (kind of like I am doing right now).
- I have an irrational fear of bees and birds. Birds make me nervous – seriously I just do not trust them and always feel like they are plotting against me.
- I try really hard to like olives – I really dislike them – but feel like it’s something I should love, so keep trying them with not much success so far.
- I love it when people are kind and authentic – no really I looooove it. The world needs more of it and when I see it my heart swells open like you would not believe.
- I am a witch – a good witch not an evil one – I see things coming an hour, a day, a week before things happen, I sense it, I feel it, I predict it. I don’t try to do it – it just happens. Sometimes I wonder if I am just one of those in-tune people, other times I wonder if I am from the future – true story! I can’t switch it on or off, it is just on the whole time.
- I love the beach, sunsets, full moons, rainbows and anything beautiful that comes from nature – this is probably something most of you would already know – but the energy and excitement I get is something that only a few of you really would understand. Those friends who I have literally yelled at to get ready faster as the sun is setting, my poor husband who has been bitten by mosquitos on numerous occasions as I race out for just one last look at the full moon. The work that I left in my inbox as I just knew a rainbow would appear and I had to leave the office immediately. People think I am weird but I don’t care – and something that makes me more happy than any of you would ever know is the people who send me a pic of any of these things, who know I would appreciate it, who now appreciate these things because of me, who have just stopped for a moment to appreciate – that to me is the most amazing thing.
Balance and harmony
Finding the perfect balance in life isn’t always easy.
Balancing work, kids, exercise, hobbies, it seems as though time is often against us.
When we have balance we find harmony, when our lives are in harmony we find fulfillment and isn’t that what we are all striving for?
Something I have found helpful lately is compiling a list of how I spend my time.
While I feel a little silly doing it and admitting this publicly, it has been such a useful exercise to find more balance and harmony in my life.
If you are being totally honest with yourself (as I was) you will be shocked just how much time you spend on Facebook and other social media platforms.
If this brings you great joy then I say continue, if you however are not enjoying this, or feeling time poor, then I say it may be time to re-evaluate as I did.
Spend the time doing what makes you feel good any chance you get.
Spend less time (outside of work/family commitments) doing things that make you feel bad.
It seems so obvious when I say it, but often so hard to actually do.
Find balance and create harmony.